Blog

On the body, desire and Buenos Aires — whether you book a session or simply want to read.

• What is a tantric massage, and what can it awaken?

  Contact with time, attention and a little mystery. Someone who touches you and accompanies what arises —desire included— without asking anything back.

• What is yoni massage, and how do you hold it with care and consent?

  Contact in an intimate area, only if agreed. Soft or intense erotic warmth may arise; it is not an orgasm to order and not a gynaecological visit.

• What does a full session feel like, from start to finish?

  Erotic warmth, tears, sleep or simple peace may arise. None of it is a problem, and none of it is the goal.

• Crying, shaking, laughing: the body when someone finally listens

  Release, not diagnosis. A piece to read when the body asks for space.

• Falling for the person who touches you, and why it passes

  It is called transference. It happens with therapists, teachers and bodyworkers, and it says nothing bad about you.

• Pleasure without a goal: when orgasm stops being a task

  Apps, porn, and the pressure to get somewhere. A read for a slow Sunday.

• Silence is not an exam

  Why not talking is so hard. True for massage, yoga, therapy and bed.

• The twenty-four hours after

  Sleep, hunger, zero desire to open Instagram. A soft ritual, not a medical prescription.

• Why so many of us do not know what we like?

  It is not a lack of libido. It is a lack of time alone with your own skin.

• Ten hours sitting, then asking the body to shine

  Remote work, a sleeping pelvis, the laptop on your lap since nine.

• The shame is about your own body, never someone else's

  The mirror, four-in-the-afternoon light, your belly. The conversation already happening in group chats.

• Desiring at thirty, at forty, at fifty

  The body changes texture and the social story stays put. No anti-age promises.

• The tantra Instagram sold us

  What it was, what it became around here, and why the word still works even worn out.

• The tiredness that is not a lack of desire

  Performing want, picking photos, answering well. Real contact versus the swipe.

• Buenos Aires will not let you come down

  The city as a nervous system: the siren, the narrow pavement, dinner at eleven.

• Travelling a lot and inhabiting very little

  The body of someone who changes apartments every month and sleeps lightly in all of them.

• Spa, sexology, tantra, yoni: a map so you do not get lost

  Four different things that often get mixed into one ad. So you know what you are walking into.

• Receiving, when you have always been the one who gives

  Daughters, bosses, mothers, hosts. The rare privilege of staying still for a while.